Kids + Parenting


The Right Way to Select the Top Rated Toddler Car Seat

There are many safety seat reviews available that can help, although with all the diverse safety regulations picking the safest out for your son is, surprisingly, overwhelming. In order to help, we’ll walk you through the important steps, beginning with an examination of the differences between styles.

Cosco, Graco, Safety 1st, Disney — these and other brands make high-quality chairs aimed at children of up to twenty pounds or twelve months. A few of these seats are capable of being turned forward, though most are entirely designed to be used facing the rear — something to remember when buying. Employed as a baby carrier, seats like this make it simpler to convey your baby from house to car — without waking. Useful throughout the time in which these seats are needed, the more expensive price tag is due to their being useful for longer. As parents with experience can reveal, typically chairs like these aren’t as easy to carry out of the car.

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All seats are distinct, even within their categories, and it’s because of this that review web sites come into their own when they highlight every feature of any seat, making sure you can pick out the optimal combination available. With their third party status these reviews can be relied upon to be unbiased, which helps you to depend upon them.

Booster chairs are created especially for children who weigh from around thirty pounds until they reach eighty. There are two primary choices in fitting — the five-point harness and a design employing the car’s integral safety belt — which makes me suggest trying both of them with your child in the seat to ascertain which one suits the best and keeps the child comfortable. Most booster chairs offer what may seem like minor features like attached toys, but upon seeing how well they occupy your little one and for how long you’ll realize how welcome they can really be.

The needs of your family, your budget, the life you lead — these are all factors that need to be addressed before buying any seat, and it’s our hope that this guide has made it that little bit easier. Simply begin with booster seat reviews to pick out the cream of the crop.

Mar 02 2010 04:29 am | Kids + Parenting and Wheelers | Comments Off

Child Car Seats, Convertible Car Seats & Rear Facing Seats

The market offers many contrasting convertible car seats. Rules and regulations inform the market to such a degree that identifying the safest for your baby is a fearsome responsibility. First of many steps in understanding those ratings and reviews and selecting your ideal child seat is to become familiar with the various styles.

20 pounds, 12 months old — this is a typical maximum for the bulk of top quality seats on the market from the biggest brands. Remember, while choosing between potential seats, to set your preference between rear facing seats and chairs capable of facing in either direction so as not to choose something that doesn’t suit your needs. The better chairs are also baby carriers, meaning it’s easier to get from house to car without disturbing your child.

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If you want a car chair that won’t be outgrown so soon, look for the convertible style. While their price is higher convertible chairs will keep your child safe from the first trip until your baby leaves safety chairs behind entirely. If you like the idea of a convertible seat but also want a baby carrier, you’re presented with a decision to make.

All chairs are different, even within a given category, and due to this reviews and review websites really shine when they highlight every feature of each individual seat, assuring you can identify the best combination on offer to you. Make your decision knowing most available reviews are unbiased pieces.

Larger children can trust the booster seat between the weights of around thirty to eighty pounds. It’s time now to make your choice between seats using the car’s own safety belt and those using the five-point harness. To check your child will be comfortable, test both types out. Most booster chairs sport what may seem like trivial additions in terms of integrated toys, but when you see how well they occupy your child and for how long you’ll soon see how welcome they can actually be.

We hope that this brief overview has helped you shorten and simplify the process of identifying the best seating for your family as the decision you face is an important one. Savvy parents won’t neglect ratings and reviews — they’re certainly the most useful information resource available.

Jan 10 2010 12:27 am | Kids + Parenting | Comments Off

Tips for First Time Oldsters to Childproof Your Home

A certain amount of uncertainty comes with the new territory of becoming a parent for the first time but it is also a time of great excitement and anticipation. In the period before the birth of your baby, you have a lot to do and to consider. Parents should be obsessed with keeping their babies safe, because baby’s are very vulnerable. The most important thing to do in pre baby prep is to make sure you have all the necessary safety items.

To begin with in baby proofing, you need to get down to the baby’s level so that you can properly see everything. Crawling babies have a different vantage point on the world than their parents since they are small and viewing things from the floor. As you crawl around your house checking everything that your baby might see, many questions need to be answered including these:are electrical outlets covered or exposed, any electrical cords easily accessed by the baby, choking hazards, does furniture corners need cushioning, or are any breakable objects within the baby’s reach?

Each state possesses laws in place that need parents to get a baby car seat fitted in their vehicles.
It’s on the safer side to check the car belt with a nurse or car seat technician before leaving a hospital with a new born in hands. Don’t try to install your baby’s new car seat at the last minute; do it now and make sure it fits in your car OK. While used car seats may be tempting because they’re cheaper, you’re better off buying new ones.

Spend some time finding good baby monitoring devices, because it will be heavily used for many years.

These devices are great for parents because they allow you to know exactly what’s going on in you’re baby’s room no matter where you are in your house.

When your baby grows, you would require childproofing products and in most scenarios, baby safety gates.
When your baby can move around, he or she will desire to examine, feel or hold onto everything they see. Putting up a baby gate in your house will give your infant ample space to play and crawl while providing you with enough security knowing that their available area is limited. Childproofing products are necessary to keep active little ones safe.

Aug 24 2009 03:40 am | Kids + Parenting | Comments Off

The Philanthropic Endeavors of Feed the Children

Feed The Children is an epitome of selflessness. For 30 years, they have delivered food, clothing, medical care, and other supplies to millions around the world. From their humble start in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, they have now become one of the biggest charities of the United States and the world.

Created by Larry and Frances Jones in 1979, Feed The Children is a Christian, non-profit charitable organization. The organization helps out children and families affected by famine, poverty, war, and natural disasters. In 2008, Feed The Children reportedly distributed 133 million pounds of supplies to children and families across the US and in 34 countries, providing over 760,000 meals per day. To date, they have supported people in need in 119 countries. With Feed The Children’s huge trailer trucks, they readily provide relief efforts to victims of natural disasters. When Hurricane Katrina hit the Gulf Coast, they provided nearly 700 trucks filled with relief goods. They also spent millions of dollars to aid those devastated by the September 11 attacks and the South Asian Tsunami. One of their recent programs is the Americans Feeding Americans Emergency Caravan, which provides truckloads of necessities to families that have been devastated by the country’s recent economic downturn.

Aug 11 2009 06:22 pm | Kids + Parenting | Comments Off

Differences Between Open and Closed Adoption

Adoption can be an alternative for a women that is facing an unexpected pregnancy. Adoption is where another family takes the child and raises it. There are various types of adoptions and each one is handled based upon the wishes of the individuals involved. There are two main types of adoption; open adoption and closed adoption. There is a lot of confusion over how exactly each type works. Knowing the basic guidelines of each can help people understand the whole process better.

Open adoption is where identifying information, such as names and addresses, are exchanged. Both sets of parents know everything about the other, including how to contact them. This type of adoption makes it easier for a child to find their biological parents when they get older. The records kept are easier to obtain and any changes, such as name changes, are more likely to be documented.

Closed adoption involves no exchanging of personal information. The majority of contact is done through the agency. Other details may be shared as each set of parents see fit. This type of adoption can sometimes make it difficult for a child to find their biological parents. Sometimes records can be sealed and changes made are made to permenant records without much chance of recovering the original.

In both open and closed adoptions there are variations. Both scenarios can involve the biological parent remaining a part of the child’s life. Sometimes pictures are exchanged or holidays are celebrated together. Adoption is a very flexible situation.

Open and closed adoption really only refers to the information exchanged between parents. In the end, everything is at the discretion of the people involved. State laws can mandate different guidelines for both types of adoption. The agency used may also have their own policies. The best option for each situation will be decided by the people and agencies involved.

About the author: Stephen Kreutzer is a freelance publisher based in Cupertino, California. He publishes articles and reports in various ezines and provides information on adoption at Adoption Help Center.

May 09 2008 10:47 pm | Kids + Parenting | Comments Off

The Personality Traits of a Sagittarius Baby

Your Sagittarius Baby..

November 22 - December 21
Young Sagittarians are happy and playful. They can be impulsive and will be the kind of child who says ‘hello’ to everyone, and will be despondent if others don’t respond. Your child will be active and adventurous, rarely sitting still, but as a result may pick up more bumps and bruises than other children.

A Sagittarian child enjoys company, but when left alone will be content hugging a teddy or blanket. Sagittarians are totally honest and expect to be treated openly and honestly in return. You may find that your child asks endless questions.

Most Sagittarians enjoy learning but will take a dislike to any rules that they see as pointless. They are sociable characters who should be allowed to take any opportunity to socialise. Parents should not pressure a Sagittarian child or be possessive over her. A young Sagittarian child may hide her hurts and disappointments and should, therefore be encouraged to show feelings.

Sagittarians are generous and parents will have to give guidance about money. These children are restless and freedom loving, but they may need to be taught that there are some social rules that must be obeyed for their own good.

The typical Sagittarian can be a bit clumsy and will pick up knocks and bruises from falling over and bumping into things. From a health viewpoint, the typical Sagittarius may suffer from asthma.

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Author: Tony Luck who runs a site about pregnancy and babies. The site includes the fascinating Chinese birth chart which supposedly tells you whether your baby will be a girl or boy.

Apr 30 2008 07:54 pm | Kids + Parenting | Comments Off

Getting Over the Guilt of Putting Children in After Care

Today I had the most amazing revelation. I was having a conversation with my sister and she relieved my mind of something that has been plaguing me all year. Up until now, I’ve put my son in after care for a few days a week. When I’m out of town he goes to aftercare every single day that I’m out of town.

Often times my mom would pick him up early. She believes that a 5 year old being in aftercare creates a very long day for a little kid. She firmly believes that having a mom at home with her kids is the absolute best alternative if at all possible. She was home with us the whole time growing up and she and my dad sacrificed a lot so she could stay home with us kids.

I remember having her at home. After school we’d get some fresh baked cookies, some cut up apples and then head out to see who was around. I remember playing kickball with the neighborhood kids, pickle, Batman and Robin and good old fashioned hide and seek. We also played “Mother May I”, “Simon Says”, and “Barbie’s” for hours on end. There were made up games in the backyard with my best friend Leda, and swim parties at Meg’s. It was a great way to grow up and always lots of fun.

Fast forward 30+ years and what do you have? Today we have Moms and Dads working, and kids coming home to empty houses and turning on the TV or video games for hours. The kids aren’t allowed to go outside without parental guidance most of the time because why? It’s not SAFE! We’ve all heard of the kids who have been swept away from middle town America by the freaks who prey on children. We all swear that it won’t be our kids, so we do whatever we can to protect them:

We keep them indoors!

We send them to a neighbors or babysitters!

We put them in every sport or activity imaginable!

Or, we send them to AFTERCARE!!!

When it hit me that the fun that we had playing after school growing up can really only be repeated at AFTER CARE; that is when I loosened up and lost the guilt. First of all on days that I’m not working full time, we’ve learned to use “after care” as a reward that has to be earned. Our son gets to go to after care if he’s had a good day with good behavior. No wonder he loves it so! They run, they climb and they kick the ball with their friends. They get lots of exercise, have a healthy snack and get to play without being inside watching TV. On rainy days they go to the gymnasium and play basketball or football and run after each other. The older kids do homework together. There is real camaraderie even among the older kids. They LOVE it!

So why did I feel so guilty? I guess I’m living with a very old set of rules. I’m remembering what it was like for ME growing up and playing in front of my house. I knew that my mom was steps away and there was a certain peace in that. But how much did I actually SEE her? Besides having the snacks, it was GOOD BYE MOM until dinner time!
If I were to allow my son to ride his bike around or play outside with all the other kids at age 5, you better believe that I’d be there watching every move that he made. I would be making sure cars didn’t drive too fast, or that teenagers didn’t pick on him. I’d be sitting in the front yard yapping on the phone or with reading materials or with my laptop, but there I’d be… in the front yard watching him and the other kids.

Working moms often accept having guilt as part of their life. If they work full time they want more time with their kids. If they are “stay at home moms” then there is often guilt with not bringing home any income. Part time is usually a great alternative but it isn’t available to everyone all of the time.

But I threw out the guilt today! I’m celebrating my new found sense of giving my child the best possible scenario for the way we live our lives today. I’m giving him the opportunity to play freely without a mom hovering over him watching his every move. I know he’s safe. I know who is watching him and I know who he’s playing with.

And now, I know that I can work comfortably with the peace of mind that I longed for… and at 5PM, I’ll race over and pick up my child and make him dinner, tuck him into bed, and know that I’ve done the best thing for him … by sending him to after care!

Mary Gardner is a lifestyle consulant and executive communications coach. Her website is http://www.marygardner.com

Apr 10 2008 10:59 am | Kids + Parenting | Comments Off

What High School Students Can Do Over the Summer

There are so many options for summer activities, no wonder it can be
difficult to know where to begin. While reviewing how IvyWise students
have spent their summers, I noticed that their plans fell under six basic
categories. I included the a few examples in each category to help you
get started.

1. Make a Difference

Community service is always a valuable endeavor, and the summer is a
wonderful time to make a difference in your community. One IvyWise
student spent two summers in high school traveling to India, where she
worked to improve the environment of a local community where she had
family. Another IvyWise student worked full time with children with
disabilities.

2. Explore a Career

High school is a time to begin exploring possible careers for later in life.

This is especially true for juniors and seniors who may want practical
work experience before deciding what to study in college. One IvyWise
student knew she loved discussing movies with her friends, but had no
formal experience in the film business. Therefore, she used the summer
before her junior year of high school to intern with an independent film
company. Doing so gave her the practical experience that helped her
realize that she did, in fact, want to study film in college. As a visual artist
also interested in business, another IvyWise student decided to spend
the summer before his senior year in college working for an advertising
firm. Over the summer he realized that advertising was not the
profession for him. Eliminating a career possibility brought him a step
closer to discovering what he truly enjoys.

3. Follow a Passion

One IvyWise student just loved biology. He took every possible science
course available in his large high school, but it never seemed to be
enough. Therefore, he decided to spend his summer doing research
with a professor at a university well known for its strength in the
sciences. He was able to spend most of the summer doing cancer
research, and included a summary of his work in his college
applications. Another IvyWise student had a passion for all things
French. Therefore, she spent the summer before her junior year of high
school in France, studying the language, teaching English, and
exploring the culture.

4. Try Something New

Taking a risk and trying something new isn’t always easy, but high
school is a great time to learn to take risks and by doing so, discover
new interests and talents. One IvyWise student had never picked up a
camera in her life, but decided that the summer before her sophomore
year of high school, she’d like to try. She enrolled in a photography
program, and developed her skills as a photographer. Another IvyWise
student spoke Spanish at home, but decided to use his Spanish
language skills in a new way. On a service trip to the Dominican
Republic, he became the translator for the group, and facilitated
connections between his peers and the people they encountered on
their trip. He learned how his language skills could help him connect
with people with whom he had previously thought he had little in
common.

5. Achieve a Goal

Getting away from the hectic schedule of high school can mean more
time to do those things you always wanted, but never had the time. A
politically inclined IvyWise student decided he would read all the non-
fiction political books he could find, as he was rarely assigned such a
book in high school. At the end of the summer he had an impressive
reading list (that he actually included in his college application), and
became more confident when discussing his ideas. Of course, goals
depend on the individual, and could include climbing a mountain,
learning to knit, becoming more outgoing, or writing a novel.

6. Do What You Want

In addition to the programs, the internships, the jobs, the college visits,
or whatever else might be part of your summer, there should also be
time for family, friends, and just for you. No matter how you spend your
summer, do not forget to do the things that make you feel happy and
energizedwhether that means spending extra time with your younger
sibling before you leave for college, swimming in the ocean, making
time to see friends you haven’t seen in awhile between tests and athletic
games, reflecting on the past year, going out for ice cream, or anything
else, you shouldn’t forget to relax and have fun.

Jackie Shapiro is a college admissions counselor at IvyWise, LLC -
http://www.ivywise.com

Apr 01 2008 03:51 am | Kids + Parenting | Comments Off